Sunday, February 28, 2010

Ageism affects more then just Older individuals, It hurts the youth.

Ageism on Trial

Modern-day America is a bad place to be young. We have an increasing multitude of insulting age-laws confining youth to second-class citizenship: curfew laws, graduated driver's licenses, age-limits on buying nicotine gum?! We also have courts enforcing a double-standard of justice. In the Summer of 1998, for example, the Supreme Court ruled that if an employee is sexually harassed by a co-worker or manager, the employer is legally responsible even if the employer didn't know about it — that same week, the Supreme Court ruled that if a student is sexually harassed by a teacher, the school is not responsible unless the victim can prove school authorities knew about it and took no action.

But more than that, ageism is ingrained in our culture, influencing the minds of nearly everyone, and causing youth to face hostility and unfairness at every turn. This was something my public defender did not understand, at least not at the beginning of our trial. But the prosecutor sure got it, and she used it to full advantage.

At the age of 21, I was on trial for "obstruction of justice" after I interfered with police trying to club a defenseless (and as it turned out, innocent) man.

The jury was not a jury of my peers. Most of the jurors were well over 40. Those younger than 18, of course, were prohibited from even being considered to sit on the jury, tilting the age-balance against me.

During jury selection, some potential jurors admitted that, because of my youth, they could not presume me innocent. "I'm a high school principal," one man announced, "so I know what kids that age are like. If police say he did something wrong, he probably did." (At 21, I was older than high-school-age, but not enough older.) Those who admitted this prejudice were politely excused from the jury. Those who kept quiet about their prejudices were allowed to stay.

In this trial, the prosecutor did not have the facts on her side, nor did she have the law. But she had ageism, and she played it like a pro. For her closing remarks to the jury, she pointed at me and started with the words "This young man...", emphasizing my age, reminding the jury I was not one of them, I was not entitled to the same consideration and fairness they would demand for themselves. Later she told the jurors, "What we have here is a young man who has just been watching too much TV." My TV-viewing habits had never come up in the trial. They had nothing to do with the facts. She threw this in because it is an ageist stereotype, another reminder to the middle-aged jurors that I wasn't one of them. Were she trying someone black before a jury of twelve whites, she might have said, "What we have here is a black man who has just been eating too many watermelons."

Ironically, the prosecutor was counting on the jury's TV-viewing to deliver the verdict that would help her conviction-rating.

The jurors had heard two stories in this trial and had to choose one to believe. From the prosecutor, the story was of police engaged in a routine arrest when they found a youth standing too close for safety. They politely asked him to move back a few steps, and — for no reason — the kid stubbornly refused to get out of their way, leaving the officers no choice but to arrest him.

This story would make little sense in real life. But on TV and in movies and in novels, this scenario is acted out all the time: evil, unreasonable kids refuse to cooperate, just to make life difficult for blameless adults.

From the defense, jurors heard another story. White cops were threatening to club a defenseless black man. When they saw a bystander several feet away, they ordered him to move several feet further (to the other side of a view-obstructing bus shelter) so they wouldn't have to worry about heroes or even good witnesses. The conscientious youth swallowed his fear and politely said no, hence his arrest.

The jurors never saw anything like that on TV. Pop-culture portrays youths as predators, not good Samaritans.

I should point out the key element of this story was never contradicted by evidence or testimony. The police who testified never denied they had brandished a weapon and threatened a defenseless man. They simply glossed over it. My public defender did not ask them about it because he assumed they would lie, and he did not want their denial on record. The prosecutor, also, chose not to ask them about it.

While my story was not contradicted by evidence, it was contradicted by popular stereotypes. On sit-coms and dramas, young people are base and self-centered. In movies and in mystery novels, we routinely see young people raping women, beating the elderly, and terrorizing innocent adults everywhere.

The news media bolster that stereotype. They give wider coverage to crimes committed by youth, and they emphasize the ages of young criminals while they bury the ages of older criminals. The effect of this has been documented. A 1994 Gallup Poll asked respondents to estimate the percentage of violent crime that is committed by teenagers. The real number was 13%. Yet two-thirds of respondents mistakenly guessed the number would be more than twice that. And one-fourth of respondents believed teenagers alone commit more than half of all violent crimes! As Gallup Poll Monthly concluded, "because of recent news coverage of violent crimes committed by juveniles, the public has a greatly inflated view of the amount of violent crime committed by persons under the age of 18."

Politicians pander to the misguided and reinforce their stereotypes. President Clinton has been known to rant about "13-year-olds with automatic weapons" without ever mentioning that the average American is twice as likely to be murdered by someone born the same year as Bill Clinton as to be killed by a 13-year-old. Clinton has never said a word about 20-year-olds conscientiously defying punk-cops.

So the jurors took all they had heard from the media, from our political leaders, and from the entertainment industry, and weighed that against what little they had heard in court. They returned a verdict of "guilty."

Afterward, the prosecutor asked for off-the-record feedback from jurors. One juror complained the prosecutor had not made her case clear enough and had left the jury unsure of how my alleged actions violated the law. This juror did not seem to worry that she had just convicted an innocent person; she was simply upset the prosecutor had given her too little ammunition to use in the jury room against that one pesky black juror who spent several hours arguing for "not guilty" before caving in to the crowd.

This experience wounded whatever faith I had left in "the system". Frankly, I was surprised I had any faith left. Events like this are all too common. That high school principal who assumed I was guilty before the trial even started was typical of every principal I ever faced at every school I ever attended, and of principals and other adults throughout our nation. In her book Schoolgirls, Peggy Orinstien got one high school principal to admit on the record that, in dealing with a dispute between a student and a teacher, he would never take the student's side no matter what the situation.

Our whole society seethes with hatred for the young. I can count a hundred movies I've seen where an adult hits a child or teenager and the youth simply accepts it rather than hitting back or pressing charges. I haven't seen one movie showing the reverse. Rapists who prey on children are cheered-on by porno mags (Barely Legal), rock stars (Queen, George Michael, Sonic Youth, The Cherry-Popping Daddies), and novelists (Joseph Hanson, Vladimir Nabokov). In supposedly Christian churches, preachers impress upon their followers that children are to be viewed as property of their parents who deserve physical punishment if they disobey. (Ironically, the Bible quotes Jesus many times suggesting it is a sin to subjugate yourself to your parents (1), so clergymen are putting bigotry above their own Bible.)

My public defender juggled a few other cases at the same time as mine. One was a child-abuse case. They had caught the man when his daughter wound up in a hospital after being thrown down a flight of stairs. The same District Attorney's Office that prosecuted me dropped the charges against this man. They claimed the stitches in the little girl's face didn't constitute enough evidence for a trial. Like other politicians, D.A.'s are tough on crime when the perpetrators are young, soft on crime when the victims are.


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14 comments:

  1. Wow Stephanie..what an article! First I never thought of ageism as anything but against the elderly so this article has completely opened my eyes and my mind to other forms of ageism.
    Secondly, the statement that our society "seethes with hatred" against young people is a very strong statement that I am not sure I agree with.
    From my limited personal experience at volunteering with second graders at a school who went from 0 - 7th grade, we were taught to be quite kind to children, to never be condescending, and to treatment them with the utmost care. This is what I witnessed actually being done at this school. Is this rare? Maybe I've been naive.

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  2. I am soooo glad you guys posted about ageism in this arena because I feel such an anger when I get rude remarks or have assumptions made about me because of my age, particularly in my social work profession! I've gotten, "Don't you think you're a bit young to be telling real adults what to do?" Ok, first of all, I don't tell anyone what to do in my profession so learn a little about social work, and also I am a "real" adult... I work my butt off and am completely broke, I'm involved in my community and I vote, I will soon have a college degree and will be working on my masters degree, I have an apartment, a cat I solely care for, a car I maintain, etc, etc... I also think adulthood is a state of mind. Some of the middle schoolers I work with have no sense of a supportive parenting- some of them do the laundry for their household, acquire/make dinner for themselves and their siblings, completely prepare themselves and often their siblings for school... clearly if these children can be more responsible than their parents they deserve to not be treated like children...

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  3. I have had similar situations Jarica. I felt it was important to highlight this area. Thanks for the feed back.

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  4. Cindy, I would think that it is more common for the young adults such as high school and twenties to face ageism.

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  5. That makes much more sense as that age range is less protected and participating more on their own out in the world. Thank you!

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  6. I can remember as a youth my friends and I were always hanging around downtown Portland, not causing any trouble and we would always be getting the nudge to move along from business owners and police. It was as if just our presence as youth was causing a problem or disturbing the peaceful professional adult world and business or the feeling was that we could at any moment bust out and break the law because we were kids and that is was kids do when they have nothing else to do and are left unattended was the ideology behind this. Also, as a youth out eith my friends I remember being followed around department stores by employees and sometimes security. I think ageism towards youth is all too common and not always named ageism because it is justified as teaching youth lessons and putting them in their place when they get "out of line." youth are not alwyas given proper credit or benefit of the doubt in many situations because it is thought that they are too young to understand things and too emotional and dramatic is one thing I heard a lot

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  7. great view point on ageism. I'm not sure what age group you are really talking about, if it was under 18, or under 16, or younger than that. It would seem to me that if this person at the trial was a minor than a parent should of been there too to advocate for the minor in the defense. and if so then this too seems to be let down for the child. I have to say that as a teen we were not necessaerlly causing harm or trouble, but we may have been rude and unruley which is not a crime that I am aware of. But I can also remember that there were time where we skated very close to the "breaking the law line" and got away with it because we were young. This was a great post because it shows how things can be skewed by either side of an argument. It is funny, my husband is a teacher in a jr.high and he is held responsibe for a 12,13,14yrs old learning. I don't know about you but at 12, 13, and 14 learnign was the last thing on my list to do. Yet my husbands job is dependent on a child to do a responsibel thing and learn, pass his/her classes. The parents don't loose there job as a parent if they don't do there job and raise a child who is willing to learn..Just some food for thought...

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  8. I felt so intrigued reading your post Laine because I work at a middle school and I have heard so many professionals in the building talking about parental responsibility and while I'm not a parent, I can really see your perspective. But I have to just offer another perspective on it. In Bath where I work, most of the parents are working poor to working class, and they are forced to make a choice between attending to their kids or feeding them. I just think that sometimes school systems are too quick to put the blame on the parents than try to recognize what more they as a school system could be doing to support these kids... I understand how hard the job of fostering growth in a child can be but I think the less we blame others and the more we think about how we can be responsible the better off we'll all be

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  9. You are definitely right jarica....I think parents should be held responsible but to what degree? Parenting is multifaceted and a growth process for both parent(s) and child. I think during the middle school/high school age most children spend the majority of their day(S) at school and around their peers. Peer pressure should not be underrated as it directly relates to the actions of youth in todays society. I think this article is very very interesting though, and brings up a good image to question. Why do we feel so leisurely about stereotyping youth? Dont these stereotypes kind of set a presedence? If we label them as lazy, irresponsible, and immature how can we expect them to see themselves as anything different?

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  10. Wow, these posts are very interesting and as I read each one I think oh yeah I can see that and I read the next and the next and think the same thing. There are so many different ways to think of it. I think it is hard for parents, (especially in certain areas and income levels as Jarica mentioned), because they are working so hard just to keep a roof over their heads and food on the table. As Laine mentioned though, I don't think a teacher should feel as though their job is constantly in jeopardy because the grades are not coming back the way the school board or board of education want them to. I think I'm getting a little of the topic though.
    It was really important for me to stop thinking of ageism only in the form of elderly and your examples of being told to move on as youth or watched in a store helps me to realize how ageism is present at many different ages.

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  11. Wow. I honestly never put any thought into agism applying to young people. The article was very insightful! I feel like this concept applies to social work because a lot of times we will work with children but their voices are rarely heard. Parents are spoken with and decisions are made about what a child needs but the child isn't confronted enough about their treatment.

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  12. This article struck home with me in a similar way Jarica described. I am 27 years old... but I have been told I look like I am anywhere from 18-22. I kind of chuckled to myself when Jarica spoke of people questioning her credibility because of her age. The same has happened here, but it definitely is "a state of mind". I have learned that because I look so young I have to almost overcompensate with my manners and maturity in certain situations to be actually taken seriously. It can be tough having the connotations of looking so young and it seems to find ways to define what you are capable of at first sight.

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  13. Diana, your story reminded me of a friend who works in the Financial Services industry. He is in is late 20's and is extremely capable and intensely intelligent. However, when he goes to visit a client in person, (rather than over the phone), they change their minds and don't want to invest their money with him. Who wants to invest their money with someone who looks so young. He/she can't possibly have the experience needed. He ended up growing a beard, (which he feels lucky has a little gray in it). He now looks older and is more able to retain clients. He still knows the same as he did before, he just looks different, so now people trust him more. (Funny thing is if you've been watching the news - the man (BM) who absconded with everyone's money, (he's in jail now) appears to be in his late 50's or early 60's!

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  14. Even at 28 I feel this way. Just today I felt inferior to the other case workers I was working with because they were "wiser" and older and it was disempowering. I really just want to learn and I also have good ideas.

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