Sunday, March 7, 2010

The Gray Panthers

Combating Ageism: A Matter of Human & Civil Rights

Click HERE to read "Ageism In America", a special report published in 2006 by the International Longevity Center USA (ILC). It defines ageism, describes its status in America in personal and institutional settings, and provides an agenda for action. Dr. Robert Butler, President and CEO of the ILC USA, coined the term "ageism".

Help Stamp Out Ageism!

(Re-printed from National Gray Panthers publication "Network" Volume 1, Issue 2, September/October 1995, page 14.)

Gray Panthers is an intergenerational organization dedicated to bring together young, old, women, men, persons of all ethnic, racial and economic backgrounds for the promotion of social justice.


Step I - Define It

Ageism is:

+ Discrimination based on chronological age.
+ The notion that people cease to be persons by virture of having lived a specific number of years.
+ The use of age to define capability and roles.
+ A process of systematic stereotyping of and discrimination against people just because they are old.
+ To be told "you're too old" is as disheartening as to be told "you're too young"; both statements make you a stereotype when in fact you are an individual.


Step II - How to Identify Ageists

1. The Pretenders - These are misguided older folks who believe that age is "all in your head".

2. The Discriminators - Some of their best friends are old, so how could they be ageist? However, they are quick to point out the realistic limitations of older applicants to jobs in their sphere of influence.

3. The Exceptionalists - These elders consider themselves the fortunate exceptions to society's negative view of old people. While they think of themselves as vigorous, productive and useful to society, they imagine most of their peers to be in bad shape, useless and boring.

4. The Colonists - This type is frequently found among politicians, and is not at all rare in the ageism establishment. They may easily be identified because they always preface any word for the ageing with the possessive pronoun, such as "OUR senior citizens" or "MY elderly".

5. The Patronizers - This garden variety is common found in senior programs. To them, the old are just delightful when in "their place" and, like children, should be catered to and played with.


Step III - (The Hardest Step to Accept) We are ALL ageist.


Whether we're young, middle-aged or old, whether we've taken courses in gerontology or not, whether we think we're immune or too well-meaning to be afflicted, we are all ageists.

We're ageist because the society we live in is permeated with ageism. We can no more escape it than we can the chemicals in our food-- or sexism or racism for that matter. But at least in the case of the other two social diseases, there's been some progress and some serious efforts to combat them.

Ageism, by comparison, has been analyzed very little and manifests itself in variations with hardly a challenge.


Step IV - What You Can Do to Help Stamp Out Ageism


1. Quit complimenting people on how young they look.

2. Promote intergenerational job sharing, part-time hours, and no hiring or retirement according to a plan based on chronological age.

3. Try not to blame old age for fatigue or disorganization or forgetfulness. In our youth, we blame poor planning, lack of sleep, and a bad memory.

4. Criticize your local news media when a headline or cartoon is offensive.

5. When selecting a birthday card, keep your sense of humor. Just learn the difference between laughing WITH rather than laughing AT.

6. Fight ageism with two important weapons -- knowledge and a willingness to approach every person, regardless of age, as an individual with unique strengths, weaknesses, options, and opportunities.


Special thanks to Dr. Robert Butler, Tish Sommers, and Dr. Deborah V. Gross for their contributions to this article.


"Ageism." Index. N.p., n.d. Web. 7 Mar. 2010. .

9 comments:

  1. This is a great addition to your topic! I was unable to click "HERE" because it wasn't a link. I'm not sure if you knew that or not or if what you posted was what the link led to. I had not heard of the Gray Panthers before. I think the tips in order to prevent the spread of ageism are excellent. I freely admit that I am ageist and it is something that I need to work on. I will carry these tips with me and try to apply them throughout my days.

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  2. This is a great article. I always think of the one where is says quit complimenting people on how young they look AFTER I have already done it. I like that this article provides helpful suggestions to use and I think each suggestion is extremely important.
    I also find I do it with children too. I will say to a parent, "your child is so cute" or "pretty". Why I am commending the parent or that child for something like that. If we are focusing on looks at such a young age, by the time we are older, (unless we accept ageing) we are going to be aspiring to looking a particular way that is unattainable and by others telling us we look younger than our age, it is only reinforcing our perceptions.

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  3. Is there no value to the idea of "keeping young" i.e. taking care of your body to promote longevity and take some pressure off of our fading healthcare system.... I just think that staying healthy is important, and abilities differ so if a person wants to "stay young" maybe that's the wrong sentiment, but stay healthy is a different idea

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  4. I like your suggestions of how to prevent agism. Some of the suggestions seem rooted in the structure of American society, media, language,and values. Therefore, agism should be addressed on a structural level as well as macro level.

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  5. I like what you said carolyn and you make a really good point. I believe that there is a lot more ageism taking place especially within places of employment than we are aware of. I also think its interesting that our school (USM) created the osher lifelong learning institute for continued education....for the elderly. I know there was a lot of debate about whether or not to combind their classes with the more traditional students but the decision was made against that. Is this sort of segregation positive or negative?>> what are the implications I wonder?

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  6. This was a great post, I really enjoyed reading the suggestions of how to prevent ageism, especially about how good people are looking. Cindy was not the only one to make that mistake. I find myself complementing people on how they look a lot! I have to admit, as I get older in years I don't feel it in my own head and sometimes when I look at myself in the mirror I'm like "when did that happen, thoes wrinkles weren't there yesterday." We really do live in a superfical world at least in some aspects. There was a really great article written by Jamie Lee Curtis about getting older in Hollywood it was really eye opening at how women are cast as they grow older. Anyway it was interesting to read. Great post group..

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  7. I think we are all sometimes guilty of ageism but as you showed with this article it is possible for us to improve our compassion towards the elderly and adjust our actions accordingly.

    What do you think about laws that force people older than lets say 70 to take another physical driving test to prove that they are safe on the road and if they fail they cannot drive again. Given the recent influx of fatalities involving the elderly who either couldn't see and wouldn't give up their car no matter how bad they got. I am torn on the issue given the deaths but I would be curious as to see what you think on the issue. I don't see how it is an more "ageist" than forcing people who are 16 to perform a driving test.

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  8. Here is an article on it. I'm not sure how unbiased it is though.

    "Elderly Killing Innocent People and Nothing Being Done About It
    People are living longer and wanting to keep their independence as long as possible. Is it right for someone who is 65 years old who has diminished reflexes and other age related degeneration to be driving? Should there

    be restrictions and limitations on drivers over 65 years old? Would it help protect them and others? In a CBS News report in 2001 it stated that Florida was one of the worst in the country when it comes to older-driver deaths (CBS Worldwide, Inc, Elderly Drivers: Not Ready to Give Up the Keys). As a resident of Florida I strongly recommend restrictions and limitations put on elderly drivers.

    I can understand wanting your independence but when you get to an age where your reflexes are not as good as they use to be or you need a walker to get around, you are not able to read street signs or make out the color of the stop lights; you should not be driving. If special accommodations need to be made so you can get around, so be it; it would be easier to live with than knowing you hurt or killed someone just because you didn't want to give up your drivers' license. "
    http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/402836/restrictions_and_limitations_on_elderly.html

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  9. Thanks guys for all of the terrific comments!

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